Charlotte Frances {6 months}

Charlotte Frances, you are SIX MONTHS OLD!


Weight/Height: 14 lbs, 15 oz, and right at about 24 inches long as of your six month check-up on Friday, July 7. We're going to start tracking your height in the nursery to see how fast you're growing.

Nicknames: Lovey, Little Love, Bubs, Sug/Sugars, Tootie. I'm still pushing back hard when people try to shorten your name to Charlie, Char, etc. - you're my sweet Charlotte and if your name gets shortened and you prefer a nickname as you grow older, that is certainly fine by me (coming from a Katherine/Katie, Mama gets it!) but I'm holding firm to your full name for as long as I can!

Clothes: You're wearing all 3-6 month sizes from Baby Gap, Old Navy, Janie and Jack, Cat & Jack and Carters, and 6 month sizing in the majority of these as well. There are a couple of 6 month outfits that are still a little loose, but I'm not rushing it! All of the Halloween and Christmas preorders are starting and I have no clue how to estimate how big you'll be in 3-5 months.

Sleep: All the praise hands for you starting to sleep 95% through the night! You go down around 8:30pm, wake up once around 1am, and stay sleeping until 5:30am when I feed you before I leave for work. There have been a few times where you fuss a bit but your Daddy is making me wait it out to see if you can settle yourself back to sleep, and most of the time you can. If you get really worked up, I'll pick you up, give you your Wub while we rock/bounce for a few minutes to settle you back down, and you fall instantly back to sleep. 

You're still sleeping in the Pack n Play in our bedroom, but we're going to start working on the transition to your crib in the next week or so. It's been so, so humid and warm here the last few days but we're buying a window unit for your bedroom and can then make the move. My mama heart is truthfully a little sad, but I know you're getting big and that it's close to time. 

Schedule: You're on a pretty good schedule but I'm happy to say that you're also very go-with-the-flow, so if we're out running errands or we get thrown off our own schedule for whatever reason, you're happy to go along for the ride and nap wherever, whenever.

5:30-6a - Wake up/nurse 
6-6:20a - Daddy gets ready and we have our few minutes together. I change your diaper and get your dressed for the day while we wave to the baby in the mirror (surprise! it's you.) and sing songs (current favorites include I Love You in the Morning, This Little Light of Mine and You Are My Sunshine) 
6:20a - Mama leaves for work and Daddy does the hand-off with Ms. Lorraine 
7:30-10a - You typically are ready for a nap between 7/7:30, and sleep for a good hour and a half to two hours in the mornings.
10-10:30a - 4 oz bottle 
10:30a-11:30a - Play time with Ms. Lorraine. She tells me that you read books, listen to music, play with your activity mat, etc. I miss this time so so much but know you're in good hands.
11:30a/12p - You tend to doze off for a quick cat nap after playing for a bit. 
12-12:30p - 4oz bottle 
12:30-1:30p - You typically nap for an hour or so around this time. If you wake up early, you
1:30-3:30p - Depending on the day, you're either awake and playing or napping when I get home for the day around 3:30pm. 
3:30-4pm - Nurse (depending on when you last had your bottle, this can range anywhere from a snack-y nursing session to a solid 20-30 minutes) 
4-5pm - Mama Time! We snuggle, go on walks, sit in the shade outside with Molly if it's cool enough, read books, practice sitting with your Boppy while we play with toys, listen to music, hang in your highchair in the kitchen while I prep our dinner - I basically try to fit in as much as I can because you're in great spirits at this time.
5-5:30/6ish - You still take a little nap here, and I love the extra snuggle time with you because I can promise you that I hold you for this entire rest time.
6p - Daddy's home! You have time with Daddy while I finish up dinner, wash bottles from that day and prep your bottles for the following day.
6:30-7:30p - Dinner time. Since we've started BLW and purees, we've been eating dinner at the kitchen table with you in your highchair, so we can all eat together. It's silly but I've looked forward to this since before you were here, and it makes my heart so full and happy to have our little family at the kitchen table.
7:30p - Tubby Time for you! You LOVE your baths and have started splashing and kicking water all over the place with the biggest giggles and grins while you do it. So sweet.
8p - Our bedtime routine - your nighttime nursing session, along with books, songs and prayers before you fall asleep. 

Health: You're in perfect health and we couldn't be more thankful! You get a bit of heat rash every now and then but this month we've been in the clear otherwise.
Crying: You only cry when you're overtired or frustrated, like if we aren't feeding you fast enough or roll over and get stuck. You've also had a few episodes of what I'm chalking up to teething crying which breaks my heart.

Feeding: Still nursing like a champ. I nurse you before I leave for work in the morning, you have two 4oz bottles during the day, I nurse you when I get home around 3:30pm, and typically nurse on demand through the evening (which is really only once or twice, max). We've started stretching more time between feedings in the evenings, so if I feed you around 4 or 5pm, we try to keep you entertained and happy until 8pm, so you'll eat a bigger meal before going to bed. You're loving oatmeal, which we aim to do with dinner time 3-4 nights per week, and on Wednesday, June 28, we started Baby-Led Weaning! It was a few days before you officially reached 6 months, but all signs pointed to it being OK for us to give it a shot, so Mama prepped cucumber sticks and avocado chunks and placed them on your highchair try. After lots of hype and excitement... you couldn't have cared less. You gummed the cucumber once, gagged yourself, dropped it, and banged your hands on the tray. You mushed the avocado around a bit, then pretty quickly made it clear that you were DONE with the highchair. 

We've since decided to incorporate both BLW practice along with purees, which makes me happy. You've tried peanut butter on wheat toast; roasted sweet potato and carrot pureed with breastmilk; mashed avocado and banana; and scrambled egg yolk. The pediatrician gave us the OK to try anything but honey, so we're going for it and so far (thank goodness) we've had no reactions. This next month I'm taking the leap into making your purees, which I'm probably way too excited about.

Likes: Your Wubby (still rotating between the Fox and the Lamb), snuggling with your Lovey, walks in your stroller, Molly, listening to Adele, your Baby Einstein turtle, holding your Bun-Bun (little Jellycat bunny), your Daddy's made-up songs (they're usually to the tune of "Oh Canada" or Christmas songs), Facetiming with Gigi and Papa, Tubby Time, and your Mama!
Dislikes: Being cold, overtired and/or hungry. 
Milestones: You've started blowing raspberries, which is the cutest thing on earth. You also snuggle with me, which is my favorite thing in the world - when I hold you near my shoulder, you lay your head down and hug your arm around my neck. You're rolling over like crazy and will sit up if you're supported against us. You've also started doing this crazy walk up the front of us when we're holding you, and you're getting up on your knees and doing downward dog when you're in your pack n play or on the floor - I feel like you're getting ready to go places, my girl!
Faces and Places: We had kind of a big month for both good and bad reasons. Your great-grandpa (my Grandpa Fox) passed away, so you and I spent a lot of time in Connecticut with family. You met lots of my cousins, whom we'll call your aunts and uncles, and your second cousins! Your Gigi and Papa then came to stay with us for a week to celebrate your baptism on Sunday, June 25. It was the best day and you had so many family members there to celebrate you. You went to the beach for the first time on Monday, June 26, to your first farmers market in Hingham on Saturday, July 1, and took your first dip in the swimming pool on Tuesday, July 4 (you didn't love it, but it was overcast that day and I think a little cool for you). 

Postpartum: I'm feeling great and finally feel like I'm looking more like myself. I'm close to my pre-pregnancy weight and am full steam ahead to continue losing. I charged my Fitbit for the first time in months and am excited to get back into the practice of step step stepping my days away.

Molly: You are LOVING your fur-sister. If she's in the room, you're constantly following her with your eyes, and when she gets close to us, you want to touch her fur. She's so gentle with you and doesn't mind the occasional kick or swat from your little hands and feet - she's just happy to be back in the snuggle club.

Things I Want to Remember: When it's time to eat, you do this adorable little pant, like you're so excited... you just can't hide it (sorry sister - Mama's lame humor is something you'll have to deal with for all of forever)! I don't ever want to forget it. You light up when you see me in the morning. We've started reading "Wherever You Go, My Love Will Find You" before I leave for work each morning, which basically means I cry on my drive to the office, but I like the thought of sending you off to start your day with that sweet Mama/Charlotte time. You take a few minutes to wake up and I love that snuggle time with you - you like to sit on my lap with your Wubby and a blanket and I soak up those moments. 

Charlotte King, you are the light of our lives and we feel SO blessed to be your parents. Your little personality is starting to emerge and we can't wait to watch as you grow and continue to learn. It's the best feeling to see your little face focus and concentrate as you try to figure out how things work - you can practically see the wheels turning! You're constantly moving and watching and following everything going on around you, and we're so excited to watch as you take on this big world.

To the moon and back, sweet baby girl.
Love, Mama

(now prepare for a deluge of photos)



Meeting your Aunt Shan, Aunt Erica and cousins Carter and Charlie in Connecticut 

Uncle Nick in Greenwich


You are the apple of your Papa's eye!




I love love love how you hold your hands when you sleep.



Mama Multitasking at its finest! I had to finish up a bit of work before we left town for the weekend, so I stopped in with you to get things done!

You love your Bun-Bun (and your Daddy).

Maybe 3 minutes after meeting Gigi and Papa at the hotel in Greenwich - you didn't leave their sight for the next 3 days!

Charlotte and Gigi - down for the count on the drive home from CT.

   
Your baptism day!



Your godparents, Aunt Meg and Uncle Ryan.

All of the grandparents! Your Gigi and Papa, Poppy and Katka.

Had to have the cross cake!


Mama and her best girl.

Walking Powder Point Bridge in Duxbury with Gigi and Papa.

Your first trip to the ocean!



Dipping your toes for the first time!




Trying a bit of avocado and cucumber.

Breakfast at Stars in Hingham after the farmers market on 4th of July weekend 


Our little firecracker on your first Fourth of July!


First time going for a walk in the stroller without your carseat!


Your monthly photo shoots are becoming more interesting...

You'll let Mama arrange you, your pillow and Lamby...

... but you're constantly moving and kicking your little legs...

... and when did those little legs get so long?

 
Lots of high kicks - your right leg is always going and extended out (Aunt Amanda thinks you're destined to be a dancer; Auntie Mal thinks you're heading for the Rockettes!)

 
But you always give Mama lots of smiles and coos. 

 
 Now that we're rolling, the floor portion of our shoot gave Mama a bit of a workout...

 
After a couple of good pictures and a bit of wrangling...

 
... you decided you were very busy...

 
 and were all done with that portion of the day.

We love you so much, sweet girl!


Charlotte Frances {5 months}

[I've had this drafted for almost a month but life got in the way and I'm just now posting for my own sake.]

Charlotte Frances, you are FIVE MONTHS OLD!


Weight: We went to the doctor last Monday (6/12) to have a heat rash on your neck checked out, and you weighed in at 14 lbs, 8 oz. You're our healthy growing girl!

Nicknames: Lovey, Little Love, Tootie Butt, Sunshine

Clothes: You are in all 3-6mos and 6mos clothing at this point. It made my mama heart a little weepy when you outgrew the 3 month sleepers that you started wearing in your newborn days, but buying cute new outfits for you has helped! Your wardrobe is without a doubt better than mine, and picking your outfit each day is one of my favorite things to do. Old Navy fits you well, but Gap, Janie and Jack, and Carters are a little roomy. 

Sleep: We're still working on finding a rhythm with our sleep, my girl. After tubby time, nursing and books around 8:30, you hang out in bed with me and Daddy while we watch a show, read, etc. You typically doze off (I'm 99% sure this is our downfall) and you're so darn cute we'd rather snuggle with you than move you. So you sleep for a couple of hours with me, and then when Daddy heads to bed (around 11:30), he'll move you to the pack n play. You usually wake up, I nurse you, you fall back asleep. Then you wake up around 1am or 3am, depending on the night, and sleep until 5:30ish when I feed you before I leave for work. 

I know that I'm selfishly probably making choices that are impeding on you developing good sleeping skills, but I miss you so much during the day that it's hard for me to not snuggle you as much as possible at night. Add to that the article that I recently read that said babies of working moms tend to wake up because they want to spend more time with mom, because they miss them during the day, and you have an emotional, hormonal first time mom who just wants to make you feel happy and safe. Ugh, #workingmomguilt over here.

Schedule: You have a pretty good routine down during the day, thank goodness. Your activity/awake times are definitely stretching out - you're interested in seeing and taking in everything going on around you! You fuss a tiny bit you're ready for a nap, but for the most part you are just the easiest baby and can nap great on the go if we need to be out and about running errands.

Health: You've developed a little heat rash under your neck from these icky warm, humid days, but aside from that you're in perfect health - we're so grateful for this.
Crying: You only cry if you're hungry, if you're overtired, or if you're done with something - being in the carseat, over an activity, etc. Even when you do cry it's the sweetest little sound and you're comforted very quickly. You've started to exhibit a bit of stranger awareness and have given a big pouty lip a few times when someone new has held you, but as long as I'm in sight, you're good.

Feeding: Still exclusively breastfeeding with the introduction of oatmeal with dinner a few times a week. You nurse before I leave in the morning around 5:30am, take two 4oz bottles during the day, nurse when I get home at 3:30pm, nurse between 6-7pm (around the time Daddy and I eat dinner), nurse after tubby time/before bed, and wake up at least once during the night to eat again.

You've always nursed like a champ and I find myself struggling to be at that point of introducing solids because I've so loved the bond that we've formed from breastfeeding that I'm afraid you'll start to wean yourself early. I know that's silly and sounds crazy but it is what it is and my mama heart feels a little weepy. We'll start baby led weaning in just a couple of weeks, and you're showing all of the signs of being ready, so I think it's just one of those times where I have to do what's best for you even if it's hard for me.

Likes: Your Wubby (lamb Wubbanub), snuggling your Aden + Anais loveys, music (Adele and Jack Johnson are two favorites), tubby time, going for walks, the Solly for snuggles when I'm trying to get things done around the house/cook, being outside, Facetiming Gigi and Papa, snuggling with Mama, mama's singing (You Are My Sunshine, I Love You Charlotte, Skinnamarink, Somewhere Over the Rainbow)
Dislikes: Being in your carseat for too long, staying in one position/doing one activity for too long, being cold
Milestones: On Tuesday, June 6, your 5 month birthday, you rolled over from back to tummy for the first time! Your little face looked totally surprised at first, and then once you got the hang of it, you were SO proud! You've also really focused in on grabbing/reaching for things, and once you have something in your grip, it's a challenge to get it away. You and I celebrated our first Mother's Day together - the first of many! You tried oatmeal this month and on our last attempt, you got the hang of it and Daddy couldn't spoon it to you fast enough! You also found your toes and your tongue this month and love to constantly grab onto your feet.
Faces and Places: You continue to be the best baby as we make our way across the South Shore for shopping and visiting restaurants! You're perfectly content to hang out with Mama at girls night, family get togethers and while being a lady who lunches. 

This month you made lots of new friends! You joined Mama, Aunt Katie and Aunt Jeannette for dinner at The Fours - we can't wait for your BFF Rose to join our little girls club next month! You also met great aunts, uncles and second cousins PLUS your other great grandmother (Nana) on Daddy's side of the family. You're a lucky little girl to have two great grandmothers alive and active in your life, sweet girl! And you met your sweet cousin Addy over Memorial Day weekend - we can't wait to watch you girls (and Shirley, very soon!) grow up together!

Postpartum: Down 10 pounds on WW, and I finally recharged my Fitbit to actually get to stepping again. We're looking into either a treadmill or Peloton bike for the basement because let's face it - with my work schedule, getting to the gym before work is impossible, and walking in the neighborhood after work can only do so much!

Molly: You and Molly have really taken an interest in each other these last few weeks and it's the sweetest thing. You constantly follow her with your eyes and when she sits next to us, you immediately reach out to touch her fur. She's been so wonderful and gentle with you - we're so lucky that the two of you have done so well together! 

Things I Want to Remember: You always want a lovey or a blanket by your cheek when you sleep. You love to watch yourself in the mirror and immediately smile and bounce in my arms when you see your reflection. You light up when Daddy walks in the room. You've started squealing and look so pleased with yourself when you hear the sound of your voice. You've also started a little fake cough to get my attention - as soon as I turn to you, you grin the biggest, sweetest grin. You love hearing me sing to you and pay such close attention when we read books - these are my favorite times with you, when we're snuggling and you seem so happy and content. We sing "I love you in the morning, and in the afternoon..." song every day before I leave for work - in my mind, that files away somewhere in your sweet little head to know that Mama will be back for snuggles so soon. As you fall asleep for both naps and nighttime, you always reach out for me and as soon as you land on my finger or shirt or whatever is closest to you, you immediately relax and drift off.

Sweet Charlotte, you are the happiest, sweetest baby girl and we feel so lucky to have been chosen as your Mama and Daddy. You change and grow and do something new every single day and while it's always a little difficult for Mama to see you changing and growing away from the newborn days, I also can't wait to see your personality continue to develop and to know the amazing little person that you're going to be. I tell you every morning that I hope you're always as happy as you are right now - your smiles are my world! 

Hugs and kisses to the moon and back! 
Love, Mama










You and your future buddy, Matthew! 
Matthew's uncle and your daddy have been best friends since first grade.

Mother's Day brunch at The Tinker's Son.


Me and my best girl

Afternoons with Daddy while he works from home

Oatmeal time!


Aunt Katie, Aunt Jeannette and soon-to-be baby Rose!

Four generations - you, your Daddy, your Poppy, and Nana King

Your first trip of many to the golf store with Daddy - your smile made his day!

Super Mom! You and cousin Addy spent the day with me and your Auntie Kay while the daddies played golf.

Packed up and ready for a walk in the sunshine

Poppy and Grampa with their granddaughters

Love our sweet little family

Daddy is SO funny!

Your belly laughs are the best sound in the world!

Oatmeal - Try #3 was a huge success!